It Feels Good to be Looking Forward

A quote by Dan Rather sums it up nicely.

I was listening to NPR yesterday morning when the breaking news came: enough votes had been counted to call the US presidential election for Joe Biden.

I followed the responses on Twitter, which I’d been pretty much avoiding since Election Day. I knew that doom scrolling Twitter or watching red and blue maps on TV or the web wasn’t going to change the results. It would just put me in the nervous, nail-biting state so much of America — and the world — was in.

So I waited.

Even on Friday, when a website I’d never heard of (and won’t link to here) called the election for Biden and was retweeted by so many of my Twitter friends, I refused to accept the results. As I told friends, I’m waiting for AP or NPR to call the results. Until then, I was not going to believe that either party had won.

So I really welcomed the news on Saturday morning. Not only would I stop hearing people complain about how long it was taking, but the candidates that could help us recover from the four-year nightmare of the Trump administration would be taking the reins. There was hope for America’s future after all.

Joy on Twitter — and Worldwide

I spent a lot of time on Twitter yesterday. Doomscrolling was over. Now it was joyscrolling. What else could I call it? So many happy people celebrating with tweets. And then sharing photos and videos of celebrations in the streets. Yes, people were actually dancing for joy in the streets of cities all over the world. And when photos and videos of celebrations in other countries started rolling in — fireworks in London, church bell pealing in Paris — I was almost brought to tears. The world had been watching and they were happy for us, happy that we’d used our democratic process to vote out a dangerous tyrant.

Four Seasons Shirt
@sawdustbear on Twitter designed these shirts; all profits go to the runoff elections for Georgia senate seats.

There was more of the same overnight and this morning.

Joyful tweets. Jokes about Trump. Jokes about Rudy Giuliani’s press conference in the back parking lot of a landscaping company next door to a porn shop. (WTF? Buy your souvenir t-shirt here; I did.) Tweets from people sharing their feelings about voting out a narcissistic, misogynist, failed businessman who should have died in obscurity after his stint as a reality TV star. (WTF are Trump supporters thinking?) Links to articles in newspapers and on websites about the ramifications of the results. Congratulation tweets and statements from world leaders glad to see that America might be getting back on the path to its world leader status.

And a tweet from Dan Rather with the simple observation that it felt good to be looking forward.

This pretty much says it all for me. Instead of having to worry about what Trump is going to say or do next to take America backwards into the 1950s or embarrass us on the world stage, we can look forward to a president who will help us get past the COVID-19 virus, rebuild our damaged economy, and get back into our previously held position as world leader. He’ll tackle America’s real problems — instead of promoting resorts and playing golf — such as our failures in health care, education, and environmentally friendly energy solutions. He’ll embrace science and scientists, putting his trust in them — as he should — to help us move forward in the technologies that were shunned by the Trump administration.

And maybe — just maybe — he’ll be able to stitch our divided nation back into UNITED States.

Honestly, I think this will be his biggest challenge. As long as Trump supporters and their sick, selfish, xenophobic mentality exists, the United States will remain divided.

Trump supporters don’t understand that what made America great in the first place was its melting pot of immigrants bringing in knowledge and new ways of thinking and willing to work hard to get ahead. They don’t even seem to remember that America is a nation of immigrants — ask any of the native people who were a lot better off before “white men” came. (And many thanks to the Navajo, Hopi, Yavapai, Tohono O’odham, and other Native American peoples in Arizona for helping to turn Arizona blue.)

And Trump supporters don’t understand that the country is strongest and best able to take the world stage as a leader when all of its people are housed, fed, healthy, and educated. Ironically, these people — many of whom are struggling to meet these basic needs in their own family — are okay with letting fulfillment of these needs come at a high price. Why should someone go into deep debt to get an education that will help them start life with good job or career? Why should someone have to struggle to cover the cost of health insurance, or forego medical treatment they can’t afford, or go into bankruptcy when a disease they can’t avoid — like cancer — needs treatment? Why is it that a budget junk food meal at a fast food joint is cheaper than a balanced meal prepared at home? Why are there so many homeless people — homeless veterans, for pete’s sake! — in the richest country in the world?

Why are we so far behind other first world nations in standard of living, happiness, health, education, and well-being?

No, I don’t think Joe Biden will fix all that. But I think he’ll try. And that’s a hell of a lot more than Trump did between his golf outings.

And I know Biden won’t stoke the same divisive hate that made Trump so popular among his small minded supporters.

Nope.

NOPE
Here’s the sticker that’s been on my truck’s rear driver side window for the past four years.

Yesterday, I finally took the Nope sticker off the back of my pickup truck. The sticker had been a Hillary Clinton campaign sticker and originally had her name below the yellow Nope image. I cut it off before putting the sticker on my truck right after the 2016 election.

Throughout the next four years, it got a lot of comments. Some rednecks in Arizona tried to start a fight with me and my friend Janet. I laughed at them. More recently, an older woman in the local Bi-Mart parking lot assured me that Trump would win. I told her she was an idiot if she voted for him and thoroughly enjoyed the rage that came over her as I drove away. In the past, I’ve been asked by Trump supporters what the sticker means; my standard response is, “Look closely and figure out for yourself.” Their reaction when the light comes on is priceless.

Other folks really liked the sticker. I think I got more positive comments over the years than negative ones.

But I took it off yesterday — and was actually quite pleased at how easily it peeled away from the glass. Why? Well, I honestly believe that some Trump supporters will be out for blood and I don’t want to be their target. It’s the same reason so many Biden supporters didn’t put a sign on their lawn. When you live or travel in a red area, you need to be careful.

I don’t need to label myself one way or another. After all, I’m really not supporting a candidate. I’m supporting my country, the United States of America.

All Americans should be doing the same.

Racism is Alive and Well in Quartzsite, AZ

A few thoughts about a startling experience.

I had the batteries replaced on my RV yesterday in Quartzsite, AZ. I’d been camping off the grid about 25 miles from there with friends and was having trouble keeping a charge overnight. Another friend did some troubleshooting with a multimeter and concluded that one of the two 12-volt batteries was dead and the other was on its last legs. There’s a great RV fix-it place in Quartzsite called RV Lifestyles so that’s where I took it. They got the job done in about a half hour and there was free music and hotdogs (and the usual collection of folks you get when you offer free food) while I waited with Penny.

Afterwards, I visited Tyson Wells, where one of the many “shows” is going on. I bought a new coyote tail for my Honda’s rear-view mirror and a pair of long wind socks to replace the wind ribbons on my home. And lunch, which was cold by the time I got it so I wound up reheating it for dinner later on.

Signs from our ugly past

With time on my hands and no real plan for the rest of the day, I went over to the remnants of the old Main Event show in the northwest corner of town. Last year, I’d bought a neon sign at one of the shops there, but I didn’t want to go back, fearing I might want another one. Instead, I saw a metal building off the road with the sign “Henry’s Antiques and Cast Iron Imports.” There were some metal sculptures outside and although none of them were to my taste — except maybe the flamingo on a bicycle that’s designed to hold a flowerpot — I thought I’d kill some time with a look inside. So I parked, cracked the windows in the truck for Penny, and went in.

Henry's Antiques
Looks interesting (and innocent) enough, no?

Inside was more of the same, although smaller pieces. A lot of signs. Bins full of cast iron nicknacks and things to hang on the wall like hooks and insect sculptures and crosses and trivets. A lot of different shapes and sizes, all heavy iron. On the wall were various signs made of a lighter metal, roughly cut and painted, obviously designed to represent the metal signs from 50s. Signs you might put in your kitchen that said “EAT” or “Coffee.” Metal bird houses in all kinds of shapes. There were stacks of repro old gas station signs, made new to look old. Man cave or college dorm stuff.

The building was spacious with aisles of bins with the smaller iron pieces. I went up and down the rows, cataloging, in my mind, the kind of stuff they have. If I found something I liked and could use, I’d likely buy it — the prices were reasonable enough. But I also like to just see what’s available in case I have a need sometime in the future. I’m back in the area most winters and can always pick up something I’ve seen.

And then I saw something odd. A black metal sign with white trim, lettering, and arrows. REST ROOMS. WHITE. COLORED.

Segregationist Restrooms Sign
Who would buy something like this?

I was immediately taken aback. It was a throwback into America’s segregationist days, days we should be ashamed of, days that should have been long behind us. Was this someone’s idea of reminding us about those bad old days? If so, it was in poor taste.

Segregationist Signs
Who would make something like these?

And that’s when I realized that all the signs in the row were similarly themed. Bin after bin, there were signs for showers and drinking fountains and officer dining. And even a WHITE ONLY sign.

These weren’t one-offs or actual antiques. There were bins literally filled with these signs. Dozens of them. Possibly hundreds in total.

They weren’t funny. They weren’t some sort of joke. They were a horrible reminder of how cruel people can be. Segregation was a stain on the fabric of our nation. Yet this shop was selling signs that seemed to say segregation was okay, it was part of the good old days like the old Sinclair gas sign over there.

Why would anyone buy one of these signs? I cannot imagine. Yet someone must buy them or they wouldn’t be manufactured.

And that’s when I realized that someone somewhere had made an iron mold to run off signs like these in quantity. And was selling them to stores like this one. So they could be bought by…well, who?

The thought that there were still people in this country who would buy and presumably hang something like this shocked and disgusted me.

You don’t have to be black to be offended by racism. You just have to be human. I was offended. Deeply offended. I took these photos just to show what I’d seen. I was too shaken to document them all. I just wanted to get out of there. I just wanted to put it behind me.

I left, taking a photo of the store front. I was already thinking about what I needed to say in my blog.

And then there’s that flag…

Of course racism is alive and well in the United States. It’s in the news every time a white police officer shoots an unarmed black man. And now it’s back in the news after Donald Trump’s attack on John Lewis, who marched with Martin Luther King Jr. to help end segregation and give black people the same civil rights white people have always enjoyed. “All men are created equal” — that’s what our Declaration of Independence says — but too many people still don’t think it’s true.

And some vendors and shops in Quartzsite — and elsewhere — cater to these people.

The most obvious racist symbol for sale in tourist shops is the Confederate flag. I’m offended by that, too. This is the United States of America. We fly the American flag here, not the flag that symbolizes the war that nearly tore this nation apart and caused American 620,000 deaths. The Confederate flag symbolizes a way of life that not only approved of slavery, but depended on it. It symbolizes a racist mentality. Anyone who tries to say otherwise is either lying or deluding themselves.

The American flag is the perfect symbol of our nation. The 13 stripes (for our original 13 colonies) with a single field of blue (actually called the union) that unites the 50 stars (for our 50 states). One nation, indivisible. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

People who call themselves “American patriots” and then fly a Confederate flag are hypocrites, plain and simple.

Sorry state of affairs

It’s 2017 and the world is a mess. I blame it on divides. The old “us vs. them” mentality.

Whites vs. blacks. Natives vs. immigrants. Conservatives vs. liberals.

Everywhere you look, there are people trying to separate themselves from each other, trying to say that their group is better or smarter or somehow more worthy than the other group.

Meanwhile, people are dying. It doesn’t matter whether it’s shootings or starvation or war or lack of health care. The “us vs. them” mentality is tearing our country and the rest of the world apart.

Why?

I’ll never understand why we let hate and anger destroy ourselves.

Back in the 1960s, Martin Luther King Jr. led a crusade for civil rights. His fight, which was mostly won, cost him his life. I say “mostly” because I don’t see true racial equality in this country. Sure, it’s on paper. But its not in the actions and attitudes of all Americans. And when I visit a shop and see segregationist signs for sale or drive past a house with a Confederate flag flying in the front yard, I lose all hope that there will ever be true racial equality in my country.

What a sorry thing to have to blog about on what would have been Martin Luther King Jr’s 88th birthday.

I Am Patriotic

Really.

A lot of people think I’m not very patriotic. They think I complain too much about the way the government is handling the war in Iraq (not “mission accomplished,” in case you haven’t noticed), health care, and tax breaks for big corporations and the ultra rich. These people seem to forget that our country was founded by complainers who, feeling that they were being treated unfairly by their King (coincidentally named George), did something about it.

(Of course, most of today’s Americans are too weak to stand up for what’s right. And with a huge number of them believing the lies spun out by cable news networks (think Fox), they’re misled to thinking that their biggest worry should be that someone other than a born again Christian Republican may be sitting in the White House come January 2009. But that’s a topic for another post.)

American FlagIn reality, I’m very patriotic. I love my country — well, at least the country I grew up in, which has the same name as the one I’m a citizen of now. I believe in the “American Way” as it was in the 50s and 60s and 70s. I still think the “American Dream” is possible for people who work hard instead of trying to figure out ways to beat the system. Today’s corruption of American is pretty tough to swallow sometimes.

I believe in contributing to my community to make it better — but not when the leaders of my community are obviously out to make themselves, their friends, and their family members rich or influential at the expense of the people they’re supposed to be serving. I believe in helping my neighbor when help is needed. I also remember that America has always been a melting pot of people and their cultures, different doesn’t mean bad, and everyone has a right to pursue their own happiness, as long as it doesn’t infringe on others’.

I believe in our First Amendment freedoms, especially the freedom of speech and the freedom to practice any religion I like, even if that’s no religion at all. I’m proud to be part of a country whose founding fathers had enough foresight to keep religion out of government, even if I’m ashamed that the Executive Branch and half the Legislative Branch of government have forgotten that part of the Constitution exists.

I’m patriotic, but I’m not blind and I’m not stupid. And I feel sorry for the people who believe the crap they hear on cable news networks and read in viral e-mail messages.